http://www.mylifesucksbigtime.com/2009/11/my-life-sucks-cause-my-husband-committed-suicide/ Because shit happens - to all of us. Tue, 07 Sep 2010 13:31:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 http://www.mylifesucksbigtime.com/2009/11/my-life-sucks-cause-my-husband-committed-suicide/#comment-584 Julz Tue, 20 Jul 2010 15:28:58 +0000 http://www.mylifesucksbigtime.com/?p=137#comment-584 Today makes 1 month since my husband took his own life and left us in complete misery. He left us on Father's Day (2010). I miss him more than any words could possibly express but I am also so very angry at him. I know that sounds kind of mean, but I am. I am ANGRY with him. He left me in this world with two teen agers to raise by myself. But, wow do I miss him terribly. He was and always will be my soulmate. We were together for 20 years. I didn't even see it coming. He had been drinking and as we all know, drinking is the root of all evil. Especially in his case. Finding out how others in similar situations are coping helps me. Please feel free to email me @ juliedthomas@yahoo.com. I would greatly appreciate any and all advice you may have to offer. My sincerest condolences for your loss. Julz T. Today makes 1 month since my husband took his own life and left us in complete misery. He left us on Father’s Day (2010). I miss him more than any words could possibly express but I am also so very angry at him. I know that sounds kind of mean, but I am. I am ANGRY with him. He left me in this world with two teen agers to raise by myself. But, wow do I miss him terribly. He was and always will be my soulmate. We were together for 20 years. I didn’t even see it coming. He had been drinking and as we all know, drinking is the root of all evil. Especially in his case. Finding out how others in similar situations are coping helps me. Please feel free to email me @ juliedthomas@yahoo.com. I would greatly appreciate any and all advice you may have to offer. My sincerest condolences for your loss. Julz T.

]]> http://www.mylifesucksbigtime.com/2009/11/my-life-sucks-cause-my-husband-committed-suicide/#comment-336 T's girl Fri, 08 Jan 2010 23:05:24 +0000 http://www.mylifesucksbigtime.com/?p=137#comment-336 Thanks Derrik, your kind words are refreshing. My life is so hard these days. Thanks Derrik, your kind words are refreshing. My life is so hard these days.

]]> http://www.mylifesucksbigtime.com/2009/11/my-life-sucks-cause-my-husband-committed-suicide/#comment-305 Derrick Mon, 14 Dec 2009 15:44:11 +0000 http://www.mylifesucksbigtime.com/?p=137#comment-305 Hi. I first wanted to express how truly sorry I am for you loss. I couldn't even begin to think of the heart ache and troubles you are going through. I can only say that I know you will never forget, but in time, you will learn how to better cope with this and how to deal with your tragedy. Time Does heal many things, out so much of an emotional burden. I dunno if you are religious or not but God can and will help you alot with prayer. I will also pray for you and your family. I believe that losing a love one is one of the hardest things you may encounter in this life. Nothing else can even compare. Just hang on tight to your kids and let their love see you through this, at the same time give the same to them. Never blame yourself for any of this for it is not your fault. One day down the road you will see how all of this made you into a much stronger person. We may not know why bad things happen to us, but everything happens for a reason. I know there are no positives you can take out of this, but you must stay strong and try to Think positive in any way you can. If not for yourself, do it for your children. You will make it through this, I promise you that. Try and stay focused on the things that are most important to you and do your BEST not to dwell over your loss cause that will only cause you even more pain. It may be hard to see what I mean at this time, but one day it will become clear to you. Time is your friend, not your enemy. And God is your Best friend of all! My prayers are with you and I just know you can and will make it through this... Derrick Hi. I first wanted to express how truly sorry I am for you loss. I couldn’t even begin to think of the heart ache and troubles you are going through. I can only say that I know you will never forget, but in time, you will learn how to better cope with this and how to deal with your tragedy. Time Does heal many things, out so much of an emotional burden. I dunno if you are religious or not but God can and will help you alot with prayer. I will also pray for you and your family. I believe that losing a love one is one of the hardest things you may encounter in this life. Nothing else can even compare. Just hang on tight to your kids and let their love see you through this, at the same time give the same to them. Never blame yourself for any of this for it is not your fault. One day down the road you will see how all of this made you into a much stronger person. We may not know why bad things happen to us, but everything happens for a reason. I know there are no positives you can take out of this, but you must stay strong and try to Think positive in any way you can. If not for yourself, do it for your children. You will make it through this, I promise you that. Try and stay focused on the things that are most important to you and do your BEST not to dwell over your loss cause that will only cause you even more pain. It may be hard to see what I mean at this time, but one day it will become clear to you. Time is your friend, not your enemy. And God is your Best friend of all! My prayers are with you and I just know you can and will make it through this… Derrick

]]> http://www.mylifesucksbigtime.com/2009/11/my-life-sucks-cause-my-husband-committed-suicide/#comment-304 Jessica Sun, 13 Dec 2009 22:07:04 +0000 http://www.mylifesucksbigtime.com/?p=137#comment-304 i'm so sorry. i’m so sorry.

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